Premature Ejaculation Can Be Embarassing.

And the desire to last longer in bed can make you turn to any kind of quick fix which offers the prospect of a few extra minutes’ intercourse.

But quick fixes don’t help in the long run.

For example, you can delay your orgasm with a spray or lotion that numbs your penis.

But you lose most of the sexual feeling (and pleasure), and next time you have sex without the anesthetic lotion you’re right back to where you started!

The only way to cure premature ejaculation in the long term is to use the methods which a sex therapist would use.

Basically, you learn how to slow down your body’s response to sexual arousal, so that you can stay below the “point of no return” for as long as you want.

(The point of no return is the point at which you know you are going to ejaculate, regardless of what happens next – and it’s a point you reach too soon when you ejaculate prematurely!)

When you have learned how to stay below the point of no return, you can literally enjoy sex for as long as you want with no danger whatever of coming too soon.

When you choose to ejaculate, you simply thrust harder and faster, taking yourself over the point of no return – and enjoy a very satisfying and pleasurable orgasm! 

Sex without premature ejaculation is so much better; much more pleasurable, much more rewarding for your partner.

To achieve this, I recommend the program that I wrote based on my own experiences curing men of PE as a sex therapist, because I know it works, long-term.

It features an attractive real-life couple who show you exactly how to use the techniques, with clear, close-up photos of all the exercises and techniques you can use to control your ejaculation. Click here to see it.

And it’s easy, too: it’s not a simplistic quick fix – it’s a long-term, viable solution, a way of preventing premature ejaculation permanently.

Like I said elsewhere on this website, most women could come through vaginal sex if only their man could last long enough.

Sometimes I wonder why women put up with premature ejaculation – it can really spoil sex for a woman.

Your partner wants your penis in her vagina – she loves it when you penetrate her. (Just like you love penetrating her.)

But once you’re in there, she wants you in there for a good session of lovemaking – not a thirty second lovemaking race against time before ejaculation!

So what are you going to do about your premature ejaculation? Find a solution? Well, you’re in the right place!

Now, are you ready to go on the most exciting journey of your life – a journey to sexual fulfillment? A sexual future without premature ejaculation?

Treat Ejaculation Problems Effectively and Quickly!

First, I’d like to tell you a little about what happened to me when I had PE. But let’s start with a definition.

Premature ejaculation is defined in several ways. But the best definition is this: premature ejaculation is defined as an ejaculation that occurs too soon, making you and your partner unhappy with the duration of your lovemaking.

When I was going through my own problems in this area, my partner and I decided the best way to deal with it – until I found a permanent cure – would be to have loads of foreplay.

And since my girlfriend especially enjoys receiving oral sex, we made this the main event. When she’d enjoyed two or more orgasms, I would enter her, thrust for two minutes and “enjoy” my orgasm.

I was completely incapable of stopping premature ejaculation. And you know what – we’d probably have been content with that for ever were it not for one thing….

One night, after we’d made love and were cuddling, she started to cry.

Eventually she told me why. Her previous boyfriend had been able to go on in bed for twenty minutes or more.

And every time they enjoyed long vaginal intercourse like this, my girlfriend had experienced powerful vaginal orgasms which then sparked her boyfriend’s orgasm – so they enjoyed a massive, earth-shaking, mind-blowing, simultaneous orgasm. 

This made me – with my weak, two-minute lovemaking, and no ability to last any longer in bed – feel even worse than I already did. And then she cried some more. “I want,” she said, “that experience again. Preferably with you.”

My heart lurched. Could sex with someone else really be so much better that she’d leave me for a better lover?

I knew one thing – no matter how much we loved each other, she wasn’t happy about my inability to overcome premature ejaculation. And I knew I had to find a solution – fast!

But Is It Really Possible To Learn How To Stop Premature Ejaculation? 

You may well be asking some questions: What does it mean that “you have no control over your ejaculation”?

How could you ever have control over your ejaculation? Isn’t it an involuntary process, one that we simply we can’t control? And just what treatments are available to cure premature ejaculation?

In fact, it’s my opinion that there are actually very few men in the world who can control their ejaculation for long enough to give their female partner complete sexual satisfaction.

Video – How to control premature ejaculation

Indeed, I’d go so far as to say that rapid climax is common to almost all men.

And it reduces sexual pleasure for all sexually active couples by depriving them of long-lasting intercourse and the possibility of female orgasm during intercourse, as well as more powerful orgasms for the man.

By contrast, ejaculation control certainly improves a man’s self-esteem and self-confidence: in my experience, a man who has control of his ejaculation shows greater confidence in all areas of his life.

Sidebar: If you have any other health problem, get it sorted. Why? Two reasons. First, your mind will not be fully on what you are doing when you are making love, and you will therefore not be fully present with your partner during the shared experience of sex. Secondly, you may actually do more damage to your health if you engage in vigorous activity, which has been demonstrated to promote acid reflux. You can see the reference about the influence of exercise on GERD here. The main body of that site gives excellent information on the nature of GERD and heartburn.

A Woman Who Is Happy In Bed Is A Happy Woman

A happy sexual relationship leads to a fulfilling and intimate relationship in other areas. And premature ejaculation is shaming for a man who wants to please his woman in bed.

Now, having said all of that, I do recognize that there are some couples who are quite satisfied with short periods of vaginal thrusting, perhaps where the woman doesn’t like long-lasting intercourse because she becomes sore.

For such couples, male ejaculation within minutes of penetration may not be a particularly big deal. But even in situations such as this, sexual harmony is definitely increased when the man takes the trouble to ensure that his partner is satisfied sexually before he enters her.

Furthermore, most men don’t realize that the longer foreplay and intercourse lasts, the more powerful will be the resulting orgasm.

This means there is a very strong case for extending the duration of sexual activity even if it doesn’t involve full penetration and intercourse for more than a couple of minutes at the end.