Many men have difficulty with premature ejaculation. But exactly what is “premature”? Well, we can define it as the man climaxing inside of two minutes after penetration.

How To Delay Ejaculation and Live Happily Ever After

Delaying ejaculation isn’t just about sexual fulfillment for the man: it also means you’ll have a happy woman in your life, because women want the intimate feeling of long lasting lovemaking, a definite sign of a good lover.

Delaying your ejaculation is a way you can really show her that you care about her.

And delaying ejaculation can be easier than you ever imagined. But action is what’s most important here!

So decide now if you are willing to commit to controlling premature ejaculation, both for your own pleasure and for  your partner’s sexual satisfaction.

It’s an important first step. But there’s a much more important thing you can do right now: 

Get hold of a copy of Ejaculation By Command.

This is by far the best guide for men on how to delay ejaculation.

Simply click on this link to buy it.

The question is, of course, how does this self-help program show you the way to slow down your ejaculation and make you into a better lover?

I’ll explain everything. Read on to find out how.

Ejaculation By Command Is A Great Way To Delay Your Climax In Bed

 

First: it shows you how to relax both mentally and physically  when you’re in bed with your partner.

Having sex makes the muscles of your body tighten, and this tension speeds up your progress towards orgasm.

If you can stay relaxed and slow down your breathing, you’ll last longer. 

You can do this by paying some attention to the level of muscular tension you’re developing. This self-help program will show you how to slow down and consciously relax your muscles so you can last a lot longer.

Secondly,  you will discover how to stay aware of your level of arousal, so you know how close you are to your orgasm.

Given this, you can control your progress towards orgasm by slowing down the rhythm of sex. You might even stop thrusting, resting inside your partner and connecting with her emotionally and physically as your arousal decreases.

You can practice most of this during masturbation, too, if you don’t currently have a partner. The program contains full details of how to do it, no matter what your sexual circumstances.

For a couple, making love when the man has overcome his premature ejaculation is very satisfying.Using a different method of self-pleasuring (masturbation) can be one of the simplest and most effective techniques which you can use to learn how to slow down ejaculation.

You might, for example, stimulate yourself for up to half an hour without achieving climax. You go to the point of ejaculation and stop several times before coming. 

Although simple, this exercise is extremely effective and will quickly give you the ability to make love for around five, ten or fifteen minutes.

Even better, if you do this while enjoying intercourse with your partner, your knowledge of how to put off ejaculation will dramatically improve. Full instructions are provided in Ejaculation By Command.

Before we go on to look at more of the contents of Ejaculation By Command, perhaps this is the moment for you to decide whether or not you want to learn how to delay ejaculation.

The thing is this: your partner wants sex that makes her feel happy, satisfied and fulfilled.

Now let’s continue to examine the ways in which this extraordinarily successful program can help you gain control over your orgasm and ejaculation in bed.

Third, if your tendency to ejaculate prematurely is based on a psychological issue, then this program really will get your head straight.

There are many ways you can slow down your ejaculation and delay your orgasm during lovemaking.

One thing that makes a big difference in delaying ejaculation is having a satisfactory relationship with your masculine power.

For example, your confidence might well have been reduced or diminished by the fact that up till now you’ve never been able to delay orgasm during sex. 

That’s the kind of thing that can have a major effect on a man’s sense of sexual confidence.

So let’s start by asking you a few questions.

And the first and most challenging of those is about your relationship to women.

If you’re honest about it, do you really feel confident around women?

Do you really feel like a powerful man whose psychological and emotional barriers are left intact when a woman starts displaying those typical feminine emotional qualities?

Can you stand firm in the face of her anger, her neediness, or her demands? Or do you give way, like a man who doesn’t know his boundaries, or perhaps doesn’t know how to be strong in his male power?

If so, then it’s my guess this might well be part of why you come so quickly in bed.

You see, one of the reasons men experience a rapid ejaculation is that they are at some level uneasy, cautious, defensive or even frightened of women.

Of course, this doesn’t mean living in a state of abject terror, shaking with fear at the sight of a woman!

What it means is that most men are not truly confident about sex. Something about making love to woman causes them anxiety. Obviously, a lack of confidence is the primary reason for this.

But there’s a twist here. Not being able to delay your ejaculation is both a consequence of anxiety and a cause of more anxiety. And, as I’m sure you can guess, more anxiety will tend to make you ejaculate more rapidly.

So the first thing you have to do is change the way you see your sexual self. If you have any doubt about your masculine power, then you need to change the way you think of yourself so you see yourself as a more powerful man.

Ejaculation By Command does all this for you.

It’s an extremely effective way of learning how to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed. Click here to find out all about it.

Ejaculation By Command will show you how to extend foreplay, and give your woman an orgasm before you even think about getting inside her.

This makes you feel much more confident you’re making love.

And that means you’ll be able to delay your ejaculation, last longer, and feel a lot better about yourself afterwards.

Learning how to delay ejaculation is the only way that you’re ever going to be genuinely sexually fulfilled.

So it’s a good job that Lloyd Lester’s program, Ejaculation By Command, has got all the information you could ever need on changing your expectations around sex.

Ejaculating slowly, delaying your orgasm, spending more time pleasuring your partner: these are all explained in great detail in this highly successful method of delaying ejaculation.

Fourth, Ejaculation by Command helps you  break through any other psychological blocks you might have towards women.

Why does this matter? Simply because most men I’ve met have some gripe about women.

Maybe their mothers were inadequate; maybe they suffered humiliation at the hands of some silly girl when they first tried to make love; maybe they’ve been screwed in a divorce settlement.

Whatever it is, a lot of men are angry with women. This does not make for good, long-lasting sex.

Actually, truth be known, what it makes for is a quick ejaculation, not a slow one. That’s because at some level your mind is telling you that the sooner you get out of this intimate situation with a woman, the better.

Now, delaying ejaculation is your choice, and it’s a choice that involves other things: the attitude you bring to sex, practical skills of muscle control and relaxation, and so on.

But really, you also need to straighten out your deepest feelings and emotions towards women.  

You can get plenty of advice on how to do this from Ejaculation by Command.

Fifth: It Gives You Practical Techniques To Slow Down Ejaculation

The first thing you have to do is learn to recognize how sexually excited you are. You see, many of the men who ejaculate quickly can’t slow down ejaculation because it comes upon them without any warning. So to speak.

If you are one of these men, would you agree the reason for that is because you’re not aware of how aroused you are before you ejaculate?

When you know how aroused you are, you can stop what you’re doing, or do something different, to slow down the rate at which you’re heading towards the point of ejaculation.

Hopefully that makes sense. Here’s how it works:

So if you avoid the sexual activities that move you faster  towards the point of ejaculation, and instead do some of the things that aren’t quite so exciting, then clearly you’re going to delay your ejaculation. 

This manual for long lasting sex shows you exactly why you must not leap into intercourse after only a few minutes of foreplay!

You’ll discover how to pleasure your partner with sensuous caresses, oral sex, and masturbation. That means giving her an orgasm first, before intercourse starts.

When she’s had an orgasm, she’s not going to be dissatisfied if you do come quickly.

When you’ve given her an orgasm you WILL feel more confident about making love – because you’ll feel good about yourself.

Even better, by starting with some activities that are sexually arousing to you (giving her oral pleasure for example), your tolerance of sexual stimulation will increase.

That means that when you finally enter her, instead of ejaculating quickly, you’re likely to be able to delay your ejaculation somewhat.

Now at first of course you won’t be delaying ejaculation for very long. But the point is this: you will feel more confident, and your ejaculation is likely to be slower.

Not by much, maybe, to start with, but each time you do this, you’ll find yourself gaining more and more confidence about your ability to delay ejaculation.

So here’s a guide to giving her oral pleasure. You could start on that today!

How To Pleasure A Woman Orally

Six: Use Different Sex Positions To Slow Ejaculation

You can also help yourself by choosing sexual positions that are less arousing.For example, if you enter her in the man on top position, try rapidly rolling over on to the side-by-side position.

And what you’ll then find is that your penis is getting a lot less stimulation, and so you’ll be able to delay ejaculation much more easily.

I’ll explain that: when you’re on your side, there’s a lot less tension on the muscles of your body, since you don’t have to support your weight on your arms. And because a build-up of tension in the body is part of your route to orgasm, that means you’ll discover how to delay ejaculation.

Also, your penis is subject to a lot less pressure in the side-by-side sex position than it is in the man on top position. And last, but by no means least, you can’t thrust as hard or as deep, which is one of the things that makes you come so very, very quickly at the moment.